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Generally, officers are involved in running two kinds
of meetings: general membership meetings and business
meetings. They are covered in that order.
Membership Meetings
General meetings of a society are often
broken into at least three separate parts: business,
program, and social. Depending on your group’s location
and practice, observing may follow the formal meeting
or be included as part of the social activity.
The program is usually devoted to some
topic of interest to the membership. A society program
committee may be charged with establishing suitable
topics and finding appropriate speakers/presenters.
If the program is to be given by a guest speaker, it
is often presented first so the speaker can leave at
its conclusion and not have to listen to society business
in which s/he may have little interest. This is particularly
important when some of the business might be controversial
and evoke prolonged debate.
All business meetings should follow
a prescribed agenda as discussed below. This applies
to the business portion of a general meeting as well.
It helps to keep the meeting flowing and allows the
President to budget time for each topic on the agenda.
The social part of a general meeting
often begins before the meeting itself. As members arrive,
they will naturally congregate in groups to discuss
items of common interest. A second part of the socializing
usually follows the formal meeting. Refreshments may
be served and members have an opportunity to network
among the group to have questions addressed in an informal
setting. For some members, this informal give-and-take
is the most valuable part of their society membership.
Business Meetings
One of the most important functions
for an officer is to preside at a business meeting.
Often seen as "a necessary evil," such meetings
are vital to the smooth operation of a club or society.
Business meetings may be a part of a general membership
meeting, as mentioned above, or a separate meeting of
the officers or governing board.
Effective meetings do not "just
happen." They must be well planned and conducted
in a fair, timely manner.
Planning
Always prepare an agenda of
the items to be discussed. An outline of a typical agenda
is given below. The specifics of an agenda will depend
on the purpose of the meeting. By referring to the agenda,
the leader makes sure that all topics are covered and
that appropriate time is budgeted for each. The time
budget is important: without it, a meeting may get
"bogged down" in one area without leaving
time for discussion in other areas.
One of the great advantages of being
the president or meeting leader is that you control
the agenda. Not only do you control the content for
a particular meeting, you also control the time allocations.
If some item is taking longer than you budgeted for
discussion, you can either redistribute your time allocations
or suggest that the item be carried over to a future
meeting, perhaps one devoted exclusively to that item
if the interest seems sufficient.
Typical Agenda:
- Call to order.
- Secretary’s report.
- Treasurer’s report.
- Committee reports.
- Old business.
- New business.
- Adjourn.
The secretary’s report is usually a
reading of the minutes from the last meeting followed
by a motion to accept or amend the minutes. Often, the
reading of the minutes can be skipped, especially if
the minutes have been published in the organization’s
newsletter. In that case, a motion to accept the minutes
"as published" would be in order. The treasurer’s
report is a summary of income and expenses since the
last meeting, concluding with the balance in the treasury
as of the current meeting. The treasurer’s report should
also be accepted via a motion. Old business consists
of items carried over from prior meetings. New business
consists of new items being introduced for the first
time.
Whenever possible, publish the agenda
with the meeting notice. This gives people a chance
to decide if there are items of sufficient interest
for them to attend. (You can be sure that having "dues"
as an agenda item will assure good attendance!) More
important, it gives attendees a chance to think about
items of interest and, if necessary, to research them
prior to the meeting. A well thought out discussion
is much more valuable and is less likely to lead to
unexpected results than an impromptu discussion. Some
people are less able than others to "think on their
feet," especially during heated discussion, and
will welcome the opportunity to "mull things over"
before the meeting.
Running the Meeting
Almost all organizations refer to Robert’s
Rules of Order as the parliamentary guide for running
meetings. Almost no organization follows "Robert’s
Rules" in the strictest sense. Still, the guiding
principle, originally laid down by General Henry M.
Robert, is the mainstay of most structured groups today:
all shall be heard, but the majority shall decide.
Your key job as meeting leader is to ensure the first
part, that all are heard who wish to be before the group
is asked to decide. The right to be heard is a "freebie
reward" for participants in the meeting. Of course,
in order to get the "reward," individuals
must first participate.
Often, the leader’s behavior may influence
participation more than any other single variable. There
are two main reasons for not participating. First is
the fear of retribution by an organization’s culture
or an evaluative leader. Second is the natural introversion
of some people. You can help overcome both fears by
actively encouraging others to participate. When organizing
an agenda, put "safe" subjects ahead of known
controversial topics. This will help set the mood for
participation by everyone. If you think it is appropriate,
ask individuals for their thoughts on a topic, especially
individuals who have not yet spoken.
Participation may increase if the group
adopts and publicizes meeting groundrules.
This may be a short or long list of rules describing
how meetings are to be conducted, sort of your own "Rules
of Order." They can cover such simple items as
"meetings will start on time" and "only
one person will speak at a time." But they can
also cover "we will treat each other as equals"
and "it’s OK to present another point of view."
Often, the rules are developed over time in response
to particular difficulties experienced by the group.
If members know these groundrules up-front, they may
be willing to participate more openly.
The meeting should run smoothly if
you have done your homework beforehand. While preparing
the agenda, review their expected input with key members,
especially anyone who has asked for an item to be included
on the agenda. This not only avoids surprises (at least
for you), it also helps you allocate time for the agenda
item and it prompts the member to be prepared.
At some point, each topic on the agenda
must be brought to closure so that you can proceed to
the next item. In many cases, this happens naturally
as discussion dies and someone "calls the question"
(asks for a vote). If you notice that a consensus is
developing, make it visible to the group and
ask for agreement. Less formal is to offer a "trial
balloon" and ask, "It seems from the discussion
that we should …" This is particularly effective
if you notice that speakers are repeating themselves
and not offering new thoughts or suggestions. Riskier
but very effective for getting commitment is to ask
some else to summarize the decision prior to a vote.
Remember that it is not necessary to
reach unanimity (unless specifically required in bylaws),
only a consensus. The consensus may not be an individual’s
personal choice, but it is something with which s/he
can live. Everyone has some minimum acceptance criteria
on any issue. Realize that the majority decision may
not be acceptable to everyone.
At the conclusion of the meeting, thank
everyone for participating. This is hobby activity.
They did not have to be here, but they were willing
to give up some other activity to come to this meeting.
A simple "thank you" will let the members
know that they were appreciated and will encourage future
participation.
Dealing with Difficult Participants
It is a rare organization that does
not have one or two members who are difficult to deal
with during a meeting. Note that difficulty does
not necessarily mean conflict, which will be
discussed in a later chapter.
Difficult participants probably do
not feel they are being difficult, only that the group
is ignoring their position. They may be seeking greater
attention. In either case, actively listening and repeating
their points may satisfy their need, "Let me be
sure I understand, are you saying …" Never get
into one-up-manship with a difficult participant. Doing
so may alienate others in the group if you are perceived
to be unfair.
Three types of difficult participants
are most common. Specific suggestions for dealing with
them follow.
The Long-Winded Participant
Some people just naturally tend
to ramble as they "think out loud." Break
in at the end of a thought or a pause (they have
to take a breath sometime) and summarize what s/he
is saying. Gently remind everyone of the time commitments.
Ask the long-winded individual to meet you at a
break to discuss the points more thoroughly. If
s/he does, s/he probably has a legitimate concern
– listen to him/her.
The Expert
There are two sides to every problem:
the expert’s side and the wrong side. Pick out the
key point the expert is making and summarize it,
giving him/her credit for the contribution. Ask
others for their views or for comments on the expert’s
contribution. If the expert continues to dominate,
speak directly to him/her in private about the impact
on the group of the dysfunctional behavior.
The Negativist
The negativist always knows why
things will not work. They rely on our natural questioning
of what is realistic and on our natural resistance
to change. Do not get drawn in and do not argue.
Keep your own optimistic but realistic perspective.
Set a "horror floor" by asking, "What
is the worst that can happen if we do this?"
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